Dear parents!
Take 2 minutes to read this post carefully
Today we seem to be complaining that our children do not to us, insult us, use language, do not love each other. No respect for elders.
In our time, mother used to cook one thing, then six children would eat in silence, thanking the Lord. Today the mother cooks six things and runs after a child *.
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Have you ever wondered why?
* Why do today's children get bored so quickly? We never said we were bored?
ہم Were we discriminating children or were our parents well trained?
Think ...
⁉️ * Did our parents hold a mobile phone in our hands as soon as we were born ??????
Or did they also become mobile zombies holding mobile phones all the time *?
* Did they use the TV for our baby sting? Did they sit in front of the TV and feed us?
Just note the children's screen time from tomorrow? TVs, laptops, mobiles, games are all included. Today's children use an average of at least 55 hours of screen time.
Have we spent even half of that time on Islamic training of children ???????? !!? !!?
Do we, parents, put the of training on each other or on the school and keep ourselves busy on Facebook, Tik Tak and WhatsApp?
If yes then ......
Then we should not complain, all the fault is our own ...
Our children are getting rude !!!
Because
They get all this anger, rudeness, hyperactivity, bad language from us and from the games, TV and cartoons we provide them 24 hours a day, their vision problems, mental problems, physical and social problems, all these. Who should we blame? Why are these children's creativity disappearing?
They have nothing to do with high character, literature and manners, good morals. Why?
⚖️ Read on and decide ...
Have we ever told our children stories of high profile people ?.
🚨 Ever been told who our Muslim heroes were ??????
* Who should we make and copy our ideal?
❌ If our little Fatima mutters and speaks rudely and responds harshly, copying Indian actors, we are happy to make her YouTube channel.
❌ If our cute Ahmed runs away and gets angry, then we bring him on TV and make him sit down and provoke him to be more rude.
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This is our social standard ...
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This is what our children will see on the screen all day, won't they?
Why are our kids becoming YouTube zombies?
Have we ever told the stories of the life of our Holy Prophet while sleeping children at night ???????????
Have we ever explained why and how such and such a verse of the Qur'an was revealed? What was the story behind it?
🌸 Ever * tell the stories of the prophets ????????????
🌸 Ever mentioned under what circumstances did Hazrat Ayub have patience?
How did Joseph hold the hand of the Lord with foresight and conviction?
Why was Abraham the Lord's favorite friend? And why did he never complain after making so many sacrifices?
* How did Hazrat Yunus come out of the belly of a fish?
🌸 For what crime did the people of Lot deserve such a great punishment?
What was the result of Noah's 900 years of steadfastness?
How faithful was Hazrat Asiya and what was her reward for that?
Why does God give examples of the purity of Mary?
The books of Dunya Jahan are on the bookshelves of our children, but whose children have read the whole stories of the prophets?
We fondly name our children Fatima, Ibrahim, Musa, Bilal, Maryam, Khadija and Ismail and think that our duty has been fulfilled and now our children will automatically become good.
But !!!!!!
* How will these children become charitable for us, instead of handing them over to the reader, we have tried to teach them the Qur'an ourselves?
Have you read the translation of the Qur'an ????????
⭕ What does Allah say in His book?
* How to instill in our children the high qualities of character that were in our glorious companions, saints and prophets?
* Abu Bakr Siddiq's kindness, generosity, loyalty and loyalty,
🌼 Omar Farooq's high character and justice,
* Usman Ghani's shame and modesty, selflessness and singing
* Ali's courage, growth and foresight
🌼 Loyalty and service of Hazrat Khadija
* Hazrat Bilal's sacrifices and steadfastness
* Bibi Fatima's love and respect for her father
🌼 Courage and bravery of Muhammad bin Qasim and Salahuddin Ayubi
* Love the knowledge of Hazrat Anas and Hazrat Ayesha
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There are so many more names ...
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These are the Muslim heroes whose true stories take them to the heights of character and morals ... not the time and wanderings spent on Netflix, YouTube and social media.
It is time for this temptation of social media and mobile phones to overwhelm our generations.
Complete relief from this may not be possible now, but make positive use of social media yourself and get children to do the same *.
🕯️ And most of all that .....
Before we complain, we must take stock of how hard we have worked to teach our children to love Allah and the Holy Prophet, the Holy Qur'an and Sunnah.
* Bibi Fatima's love and respect for her father
🌼 Courage and bravery of Muhammad bin Qasim and Salahuddin Ayubi
* Love the knowledge of Hazrat Anas and Hazrat Ayesha
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There are so many more names ...
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These are the Muslim heroes whose true stories take them to the heights of character and morals ... not the time and wanderings spent on Netflix, YouTube and social media.
It is time for this temptation of social media and mobile phones to overwhelm our generations.
Complete relief from this may not be possible now, but make positive use of social media yourself and get children to do the same *.
🕯️ And most of all that .....
Before we complain, we must take stock of how much we have worked hard to teach our children to love Allah and the Holy Prophet, the Holy Qur'an and the Sunnah.
How much quality time do we give our children daily?
* What do you do to instill a sense of responsibility in children?
🔦 And how many moral and love lessons are taught to them?
Sit alone and think for a while and then discuss with your partner and plan,
🤚🏻 (Wait ... don't blame each other, you both have to work as a team ...)
⏳ But before changing children, change yourself first, that if we change, we will be able to change children.
It is important for good children to be good parents ...
Don't let the media kidnap your children. Let them enjoy the scenery. Let the trees climb. Let the teacher play from house to house. Teach your daughters homework and give your sons other household responsibilities.
* Sometimes I think that God gave us children, thank God
But we are crippling them. Mobile in hand, eyes on TV and brain game. They are losing the ability to think, understand, solve problems and get up and do physical work.
If you say something, you will have to make a hundred excuses, or you will have to make it so loud that the servant says get up and do the work yourself. If they come, they will stand together for two minutes and leave with kindness. Who will teach them the value and respect of parents and how?
If someone came from outside, he stopped doing this work.
It is up to us to do this training
I say that if the children are made a palace of gold, if the world holds the degrees in their hands and does not train them, then there is no point in such hard work.
Grab a pen and paper and plan today. Today will not come again ... You have to train now and these kids are your best asset. This is the offspring that becomes a fitna for man and also an ongoing charity.
👈🏻 Now what do you want to make them for yourself? It's up to you ... it depends on your training.
