If you are looking for a guidance on happy relation with your spouse or either you are in relationship. Then i want to give you good news that you are at right place. In this article we will briefly discuss all factors which are necessary for a happy well being. Lets have a look.
1. Respect.
2. Love.
3. Care.
5. Appreciation.
6. Validation.
7. Avoiding controversal arguments.
8. Gifts.
9. Do some activity together
10. Be humorous
There is brief discription of above points below......
1. Respect;
If you want to continue your relationship for long time, the first thing is to give respect to your partner. Give respect by actions as well as words. Don't use such words which are offensive for him/her. Respect is a feeling that shows your positive thinking ability and it gives sense ofadmiration for another person. Defending him/her,while others are insulting or showing bad behaviour to him/her is also a type of respect. There are alot of ways to show respect to him.
A. RESPECT BY WORDS.
B. RESPECT BY HEART .
C. RESPECT BY GESTURES.
D. RESPECT BY ACTIONS.
2. Love;
The second thing is to love your partner mentally,physically and spiritually. Love is the basic need of human nature. To keep your relationship longer you should express your love feelings to your partner off and on. I share a list of activities by which you can express your love to your partner.
A. Give him/her surprises.
This is the best way to cheer your partner. You can give him a single flower,can sing a song for him/her, can go for a long drive,or anything else what your partner like to do.
B. Remember his/her important events dates.
Remembering his/her important event dates make them feel that they are important for you. These dates can b their birthdays,anniversaries. You can also make these days memorable for him/her.
C. Moral support.
You should support him/her morally to show that he/she is not alone in any problem. you are always behind him in every issue.
D. Give time.
The most important thing is to give him some leisure time. In this time you should keep yourself away from all social activities and mobile phone...Concentrate on your partner, admire him/her and tell hi/her that how much you love him.
3. Care;
For a long lasting relationship one should take care of each other. Care can b done in following manners;
A. Care by words.
In any relationship you should be careful about your words.You should not use such words which are painful for another person. You should also not use insulting or bad words for anyone.
B. Care by help.
You can take care of your partner by helping him/her in their work. If you are a husband you can take care of your wife by helping her in household chores like washing dishes, making breakfast,u can also take care of your baby so that she can complete her work without interruption. If you are wife you can help your husband in his office work at home if you are compatible with his work, you can also help him by giving him some time alone so that he will complete his work.
C. Care of health.
If your partners health is not good you must take care of him/her. You can take him to hospital. Take care of his/her medication or diet.
4; Appreciation;
Appreciation works as catalyst which boost your relationship. According to a research all happy couples appreciate each other on daily basis. So basically it is a tool to keep your relationship longer. You should appreciate your partners efforts also.
5. Validation;
You should share your feelings,your all day activities,thoughts to him/her. This is also meant that you are with him/her in that moment. You can also validate you partner by asking all these things. Validation is actually giving honour to that moment/experience.
7. Avoiding arguments.
Arguments are the basic roots for breakup of any relationship so you should avoid unnecessary arguments to your partner. You can share your point of view in that time when your partner listens you attentively. Arguing at wrong time and wrong place always demolish the relationship.
8. Gifts;
Gifts are the building blocks of any relationship. Gifts makes your relationship stronger. A gift can b as little as a flower, of higher as a BMW. A gift can b morning hug and a beautiful smile also. So try to give your partner a small cute gift on daily basis.
9. Do some activity together.
You should start some activity with your partner together like swimming, movie watching, riding, learning etc. It will give you some golden time to spend with your partner.
10. Be humorous.
Developing sense of humour seems most fruitful in carrying a relationship long.
By following these points you can make your relationship stronger. Stay blessed.
